Connected or disconnected?

Feeling disconnected is the worst feeling people would come across. To me, it's hard to reconnect when he/she disconnected badly. Especially when unfavorable things happened to her/him. There are several reasons why these happen:

1. Family.
   Why don't we get their blessings?Maybe sometimes it's pretty obvious that the partner is not the one. Or maybe the partner doesn't please the family well. And other family reasons which I can't figure out now.
   
   
2. Partner/You.
   When partners have inverse opinions (as in really really contra), it's very tough to work it out. Here are the two possibilities that might happen. It's either you suffer for the rest of your life or leave the partner and find someone else that can actually connected with you well.
   
   
3. Third person.
   This person only appear when you are bored or can't get along with the partner anymore. You decide to have a new life.To break the routine.And no wonder affairs felt great! Great enough to like someone else & hurt the partner at the same time.
   

A friend told me that:

"Your heart is like a glass.When the glass breaks, it will never be the same
as before".

True, but what if he/she is the one for you & you can't live without? There's no harm to reconnect/reconcile. So, if he/she trying his/her best to keep it going or reconnect when it's disconnected (applicable to the couple who still madly in love with each other & inseperable), then be with him/her and love dearly. Who knows, he/she might be the one in your life.