Happy New Year to all =)
Monday, December 31, 2007
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
still pressure?
tired & exhausted..hanging there for the big treat!
-->11days of relaxing!
Aidil-Adha in Dublin will be on Wednesday, 19.12.2007 ..
-->11days of relaxing!
Aidil-Adha in Dublin will be on Wednesday, 19.12.2007 ..
Selamat menunaikan haji
Selamat Hari Raya Aidil-Adha
Maaf Zahir & Batin
Sunday, December 09, 2007
Top Five Dating Mistakes That Men Make
How many times have you gone on what you thought was an amazing date only to find that the person never calls back or doesn't seem interested when you try to book another date?
Dating can be awkward, and everyone makes mistakes. Of course, there are some instances in which the person you like doesn't follow up and it has nothing to do with you (e.g,. an ex comes back into her life...don't you love that?). But often it's simple things we do (or don't do) that prevent us from making a connection.
During the past few years, I've interviewed hundreds of daters and asked them what they were looking for, and it's amazing to hear the same themes. Women have certainly complained to me about the biggest mistakes they feel that men make in dating, so I thought I'd share the secrets.
1. Men Show Off or Try to Impress Too Much.
Don't offer your resume, your earning potential, and tell us how you'll change our lives the first time we meet you. Instead of talking about yourself the whole night, ask questions! Don't come on too strong right away. Let us figure out if we want to be with you, instead of telling us we do.
2. Men Don't Listen to Us When We're Talking.
We notice if you stop listening to us, if you ask us questions we just answered, or if you keep interrupting us when we're opening up. This drives most women nuts! Unless you're on call, don't check your Blackberry at dinner and don't check out other women.
The lines here are not always clear. We want you to treat us like equals, but we also want you to treat us like women. It's nice when a man picks up the tab or makes sure his date gets home safely. It may be old-fashioned, but a number of women report that dating a gentleman matters.
4. Men Don't Take Initiative.
Men, how many times have you caught yourself saying, "I don't know" or "Whatever you'd like" when planning a date? If you've asked a woman out, a better approach is to give a few fun and creative date options and ask her to pick one.
Initiative doesn't mean ordering for a woman at a restaurant or ordering a woman around! It does mean confidently approaching your date with ideas, passion and interest. It also means you can be flirty and forward, letting her know how amazing you think she looks or how much you want to kiss her.
5. Men Say They'll Call and Then Don't.
It's no surprise that acting like you're going to follow up when you're not bothers most women (and never underestimate the way word travels about you not keeping your word!). Better to end a date by saying, "It was nice to meet you. Have a good night." Don't act like you're going to follow up if you're not. If you've gone out more than a few times, be honest that while you enjoy your date's company, you don't feel a romantic connection.
Dating can be awkward, and everyone makes mistakes. Of course, there are some instances in which the person you like doesn't follow up and it has nothing to do with you (e.g,. an ex comes back into her life...don't you love that?). But often it's simple things we do (or don't do) that prevent us from making a connection.
During the past few years, I've interviewed hundreds of daters and asked them what they were looking for, and it's amazing to hear the same themes. Women have certainly complained to me about the biggest mistakes they feel that men make in dating, so I thought I'd share the secrets.
“Don't worry -- I have plenty of material on the mistakes women make, butTop Five Dating Mistakes That Men Make
that's for a future installment.”
1. Men Show Off or Try to Impress Too Much.
Don't offer your resume, your earning potential, and tell us how you'll change our lives the first time we meet you. Instead of talking about yourself the whole night, ask questions! Don't come on too strong right away. Let us figure out if we want to be with you, instead of telling us we do.
2. Men Don't Listen to Us When We're Talking.
We notice if you stop listening to us, if you ask us questions we just answered, or if you keep interrupting us when we're opening up. This drives most women nuts! Unless you're on call, don't check your Blackberry at dinner and don't check out other women.
“Focus on the woman across the table from you and listen to what she has to3. Men Aren't Chivalrous.
say.”
The lines here are not always clear. We want you to treat us like equals, but we also want you to treat us like women. It's nice when a man picks up the tab or makes sure his date gets home safely. It may be old-fashioned, but a number of women report that dating a gentleman matters.
4. Men Don't Take Initiative.
Men, how many times have you caught yourself saying, "I don't know" or "Whatever you'd like" when planning a date? If you've asked a woman out, a better approach is to give a few fun and creative date options and ask her to pick one.
Initiative doesn't mean ordering for a woman at a restaurant or ordering a woman around! It does mean confidently approaching your date with ideas, passion and interest. It also means you can be flirty and forward, letting her know how amazing you think she looks or how much you want to kiss her.
5. Men Say They'll Call and Then Don't.
It's no surprise that acting like you're going to follow up when you're not bothers most women (and never underestimate the way word travels about you not keeping your word!). Better to end a date by saying, "It was nice to meet you. Have a good night." Don't act like you're going to follow up if you're not. If you've gone out more than a few times, be honest that while you enjoy your date's company, you don't feel a romantic connection.
“Just remember, communication is usually the way to go with a woman.”There are always exceptions, so I don't believe there are absolute rights and wrongs in dating -- but there are strategies. If you follow these simple steps, you'll be ahead in the dating game. At least you'll get an 'A' for effort.
Friday, December 07, 2007
My Interpretation
You talk about life, you talk about death,
And everything in between,
Like it’s nothing, and the words are easy.
You talk about me, and you talk about you,
And everything I do,
Like it’s something, that needs repeating.
I don’t need an alibi or for you to realize,
The things we left unsaid,
Are only taking space up in our head.
Make it my fault, win the game
Point the finger, place the blame
It does me up and down,
It doesn’t matter now.
[chorus:]
‘Cause I don’t care if I ever talk to you again.
This is not about emotion,
I don’t need a reason not to care what you say,
Or what happened in the end.
This is my interpretation,
And it don’t, don’t make sense.
The first two weeks turn into ten,
I hold my breath and wonder when it’ll happen,
Does it really matter?
If half of what you said is true,
And half of what I didn’t do could be different,
Would it make it better?
If we forget the things we know.
Would we have somewhere to go?
The only way is down, I can see that now.
[chorus]
It’s really not such a sacrifice
[chorus]
And it don’t have to make no sense to you at all,
‘Cause this is my interpretation, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And everything in between,
Like it’s nothing, and the words are easy.
You talk about me, and you talk about you,
And everything I do,
Like it’s something, that needs repeating.
I don’t need an alibi or for you to realize,
The things we left unsaid,
Are only taking space up in our head.
Make it my fault, win the game
Point the finger, place the blame
It does me up and down,
It doesn’t matter now.
[chorus:]
‘Cause I don’t care if I ever talk to you again.
This is not about emotion,
I don’t need a reason not to care what you say,
Or what happened in the end.
This is my interpretation,
And it don’t, don’t make sense.
The first two weeks turn into ten,
I hold my breath and wonder when it’ll happen,
Does it really matter?
If half of what you said is true,
And half of what I didn’t do could be different,
Would it make it better?
If we forget the things we know.
Would we have somewhere to go?
The only way is down, I can see that now.
[chorus]
It’s really not such a sacrifice
[chorus]
And it don’t have to make no sense to you at all,
‘Cause this is my interpretation, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Monday, December 03, 2007
Saturday, December 01, 2007
friday chilling~
bee & sue came over to my place for dinner,movies,and..gossips..didn't gossip much this time since we watch 3 movies in a row!
Sleepover
really wish I could go/have a slumber party when I was young.Big q..will i let my daughter to have/go to a slumber party?hrmm..anyway,sean faris is cute!he loves a fresh student who soon going to high school!feedback from the girls '14 year old man!how can they bercinta with a senior!'.such a fairytale movie..
That thing you do
the band was brilliant.The song was a one hit wonder. There are lines where Tom Hanks had a conversation with Liv Tyler 'How long have you been with Jimmy?' 'Two and a half years' 'wow,that's a pretty long time'..sue & i were laughing mad as we wondered what would tom say about us? '>3years in a relationship..that's like ages!' LOL!!
Rempit
Bohsia..I can't believed i was called bohsia by him! :(
Apart of that..hate mat rempits!They are the worse people for me..reminiscing the college days~
Sleepover
really wish I could go/have a slumber party when I was young.Big q..will i let my daughter to have/go to a slumber party?hrmm..anyway,sean faris is cute!he loves a fresh student who soon going to high school!feedback from the girls '14 year old man!how can they bercinta with a senior!'.such a fairytale movie..
That thing you do
the band was brilliant.The song was a one hit wonder. There are lines where Tom Hanks had a conversation with Liv Tyler 'How long have you been with Jimmy?' 'Two and a half years' 'wow,that's a pretty long time'..sue & i were laughing mad as we wondered what would tom say about us? '>3years in a relationship..that's like ages!' LOL!!
Rempit
Bohsia..I can't believed i was called bohsia by him! :(
Apart of that..hate mat rempits!They are the worse people for me..reminiscing the college days~
what's with f?
wake up in the morning...f
studying..f
having meal...f
watching tv...f
going to bed..f
everyday & night is a f's day...
if it wasn't because of f's..men vs women issues..
*sigh*..guess gonna bear that till it ends...
but i guess without f's pon susah..men & women always have issues.life oh life~~
studying..f
having meal...f
watching tv...f
going to bed..f
everyday & night is a f's day...
if it wasn't because of f's..men vs women issues..
*sigh*..guess gonna bear that till it ends...
but i guess without f's pon susah..men & women always have issues.life oh life~~
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